This book is designed to educate both people in the
PUA community and people who are interested in being
better at finding women and dating them. If you are
unfamiliar with the term PUA, it stands for Pick-up Artist,
and represents a community of people who are primarily
interested in the science of attraction and how to apply that
science “in the field”, or in layman’s terms, “at the club” (or
bar, or wherever they want to meet women).
It would be stupid of me to say that the PUA
community offers nothing to men who want to improve their
“game”. Their scientific approach is definitely appealing and
enlightening, and you can get a lot of value from it. I tried it
myself, and I did have success.
But I didn’t have the kind of success that I wanted. I
had women want me, but I didn’t feel like I was being real,
and it really bothered me. All of the canned material, field
reports, creating an avatar, the whole thing felt weird. I
didn’t like the idea of having to invent an avatar, develop a
specific look, or build a new personality just to meet women.
What’s wrong with mine?
Well, as I discovered, nothing is wrong with it. I just
didn’t know how to convey it in a way that was sexy.
I’m going to be talking about things in this book that
may or may not put you outside of your comfort zone.
Understand this: trying new things is not the same as
compromising your personality. I don’t have a problem with
trying new things, and you shouldn’t either. But there is a huge difference between trying something new and feeling
like you are losing your soul.
In this book, you’ll learn how to attract women without
ever feeling like you are compromising your personality just
to get laid. You’ll learn how to show women your genuine
personality without ever feeling like you’re going to be
rejected. This is going to be fun.
Table of Contents
1. Who am I?
2. What is “routine” and why is it bad?
3. Why do people follow a routine?
4. Be yourself!
Part 1. Your personality
Part 2. Tips, Tricks, and Secrets
1. Never apologize for who you are
3. Never compliment physical beauty
5. Never do what you don’t want to do
6. Make ridiculous demands
7. Have your date buy you a drink
8. Role play
9. Never talk about your job unless you can do it in an exciting way
10. Talk about your passions
11. Be a passionate person
12. Look for women where you are the most comfortable
13. Be happy
14. Realize that even beautiful women get rejected
15. Imagine how they feel